Recently, I remembered one of my friends who had an issue to settle in a Nigerian government establishment some years ago. He needed an insider to help him out. He soon found one, his uncle, who once lived in their house and benefited from his parent’s kindness.
With confidence, he approached his uncle, narrated his story, and asked him for help. But to his utmost surprise, the man said no, and eased my friend out of his office with much arrogance, impatience, and unkindness. He was so disappointed in his uncle! But he quickly forgot the ensuing disappointment, forgave him (Colossians 3:13), and turned to God for help.
Before long, he ran into one of his classmates working in the same establishment as his uncle. One thing led to another, he narrated his plight to her, and she got a more senior officer than his uncle, to help him. This person also helped others, at the instance of my friend, in later years.
Looking back now, I believe my friend’s uncle didn’t help him, not because he is a wicked man, but because God stopped him so that my friend could turn to Him for far-reaching help. Please remember He is God, and He does what He likes (Psalm 135:6).
Friends, God is aware of your current situation (Psalm 139:1-2), and He won’t allow it to overwhelm you (1 Corinthians 10:13). But, like my friend, you need to forget the disappointment arising from it, forgive those you need to forgive, and turn to God for far-reaching help (Isaiah 43:18-19).
So, you need to forget the disappointment arising from someone not helping you; forgive him or her and turn to God for help, and He will help you (Isaiah 41:10). You also need to forget the disappointment arising from your boss not promoting you without cause; forgive him or her and turn to God for help; He’ll promote you at the right time (Psalm 75:6-7).
Are you disappointed that you lost money from a failed business deal? If you are, please forgive as appropriate, turn to God for help, and He’ll restore your losses back to you (Joel 2:25-26). Moreover, you need to forget the disappointment arising from your child behaving badly, turn to God for help, and He’ll save him or her (Isaiah 49:25).
Please, put away EVERY disappointment in your life today; forgive as appropriate, and turn to God for help through Jesus Christ. Ask for anything in His name, and He’ll do it (John 14:13-14).
Finally, if you are disappointed that you bungled every attempt to help you become born again, i.e., you are not yet saved, please forgive yourself, and confess the Lordship of Jesus Christ with your mouth; believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you’ll be saved (Romans 10:9), in Jesus’ name. Amen.
Jesus is Lord!
Medical Practitioner, Author, and Speaker